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The Behavioral Science of Gratitude: A Thanksgiving Perspective

Writer's picture: Courtney Lasky, M.Ed., BCBA, LBACourtney Lasky, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA

As Thanksgiving approaches, our thoughts often turn to themes of gratitude and giving thanks. While many of us may instinctively feel grateful during this season, understanding gratitude from a behavior analyst's perspective can deepen our appreciation for its role in our lives.


What Is Gratitude?

From a behavioral standpoint, gratitude can be operationally defined as a response to receiving a positive outcome, often resulting in an acknowledgment of that outcome and a desire to reciprocate. This typically involves three components:


1. Acknowledge the Benefit: Recognizing that someone has provided help or support.

2. Emotional Response: Experiencing a positive emotional state, such as warmth or happiness.

3. Reciprocal Behavior: Engaging in behaviors that express appreciation, whether through verbal thanks, gifts, or acts of kindness.


Gratitude can be reinforced in two ways: socially mediated reinforcement and automatic reinforcement. Socially Mediated Reinforcement occurs when the expression of gratitude leads to positive social interactions, such as improved relationships and emotional support from others. For example, when you thank someone, their positive response reinforces your behavior of expressing gratitude. Automatic Reinforcement refers to the internal feelings of happiness and satisfaction that arise from recognizing and appreciating positive experiences. This intrinsic reward can reinforce the behavior of gratitude even in the absence of external validation. These definitions align with principles of applied behavior analysis, highlighting how behaviors can be reinforced and shaped.


The Science Behind Gratitude

Research in psychology has demonstrated that gratitude is not just a fleeting emotion; it has tangible effects on well-being. Individuals who practice gratitude report higher levels of happiness, reduced depression, and even physical health benefits. These effects can be understood through the lens of behaviorism, where the act of expressing gratitude becomes a reinforcing behavior, encouraging further positive interactions.


Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Psychological Flexibility

One framework that complements the understanding of gratitude is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). ACT emphasizes psychological flexibility—the ability to adapt to situational demands, shift mindsets, and maintain balance amidst challenges. Gratitude plays a significant role in enhancing psychological flexibility.


Research has shown that practicing gratitude can help individuals become more present-focused, allowing them to acknowledge their thoughts and feelings without judgment. This aligns with ACT’s goal of increasing awareness and acceptance, helping individuals let go of negative thoughts and embrace positive experiences.


Impact of Gratitude 

A study by Wood, Froh, and Geraghty (2010) highlighted that individuals who engage in gratitude practices tend to experience increased psychological well-being. They reported lower levels of anxiety and depressive symptoms and higher levels of life satisfaction. These findings suggest that gratitude can facilitate greater psychological flexibility, making it easier to navigate life’s ups and downs.


Gratitude plays an impactful role in shaping behavior and fostering positive outcomes in various therapeutic and social settings. Emphasizing gratitude can be particularly beneficial in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) and other behavior modification approaches, where it serves as a socially mediated reinforcer that encourages prosocial behavior and strengthens social interactions. By acknowledging and reinforcing moments of gratitude, behavior analysts and educators can create more supportive and cooperative environments.


In practice, integrating expressions of gratitude into ABA sessions can help build a positive rapport between therapists and clients. For children, especially those on the autism spectrum, learning to express and recognize gratitude can enhance social reciprocity and improve peer relationships. Gratitude interventions, such as modeling and encouraging expressions of thanks or appreciation, can serve as natural reinforcement for social engagement. This, in turn, can lead to increased opportunities for social skill development and more positive interactions both in therapeutic settings and at home.


 Encouraging Gratitude in Daily Life

As we celebrate Thanksgiving, we can use these insights to foster gratitude in our own lives and communities. Here are some practical strategies:


1. Daily Acknowledgment: Set aside time each day to reflect on what you’re grateful for. Write it down or share it with a friend to reinforce the behavior through socially mediated reinforcement.

2. Practice Reciprocity: Make it a point to express thanks regularly, whether through verbal acknowledgments, notes, or small acts of kindness, leveraging both social and automatic reinforcement.

3. Create Gratitude Rituals: Incorporate gratitude into family gatherings. For example, invite everyone to share something they appreciate about each other during the Thanksgiving meal.

4. Model Gratitude: As parents or educators, demonstrate gratitude in your daily interactions. Children learn by observing, and your behavior will set the standard for their own expressions of appreciation.


The Lasting Impact of Gratitude

Gratitude, when understood as a behavior that can be cultivated and reinforced, offers profound benefits for our mental health and interpersonal relationships. This Thanksgiving, let’s embrace the opportunity to express our gratitude and strengthen our connections with others. By doing so, we not only enhance our own well-being but also contribute to a more supportive and positive environment for those around us.


In the spirit of the season, let’s give thanks not just in words, but through our actions—creating a cycle of appreciation that lasts well beyond the holiday.


References

Emmons, R. A., & McCullough, M. E. (2003). Counting blessings versus burdens: An 

experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being in daily life. Journal of 

Personality and Social Psychology, 84(2), 377-389. https://psycnet.apa.org/doi/10.1037/0022-3514.84.2.377


Wood, A. M., Froh, J. J., & Geraghty, A. W. (2010). Gratitude and well-being: A review and 

theoretical integration. Clinical Psychology Review, 30(7), 890-905. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cpr.2010.03.005

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